Sorry
Vidya, this is not about your movie. Perhaps I didn’t find it that dirty.
Everything in the movie was good and true to our Indian culture from the skin
show to the dialogues ‘Jab sharafat apne
kapare uttarti hai to sabse jyada maza shariffon ko hi aata hai’
The
reason why I am writing this is ‘The Indian Hypocrisy’. Few weeks ago there was
a porn watching incident in Karnataka assembly. There was a lot of mullah about
the incident and the centre point of all the talks was ‘Ministers were watching
porn’. My question is ‘Is watching porn a crime?’ NO, not even in Indian law
books. Media and we the Indian public should ask those ministers why they were
doing anything else rather than participating or listening to the assembly
debates. But the narrow minded Indian media just concentrated on the ‘PORN’
stuff. Why because it will increase their TRP. And it’s not their fault we the
Indians are always interested in those masala news. In my view those ministers
should be punished as much as the others, who sleep during the assembly proceedings.
Today
is the Valentine Day and these are the people who will stand against this love
day and those Shiv Sena and Ram Sena people will stand guard to protect the so
called Indian culture. Ask those guardians of Indian culture to march to these
ministers now. Why are they not saying anything now?
Not
only these ministers, majority of Indian public is like this. I mean, who had
not seen porn in their life? But still it is considered wrong. Ya, only the few
are so audacious to watch it in public. And these Karnataka ministers are not
alone on that path. There are lot many people who do the same brave stuff in
office and the number of aged persons out pace the young population in that
regard. Every friend of mine can count number of people in their respective
office for the same and I am sure their finger tips would fell short for that.
Then
why these double standards? If you enjoy sex that much….. then why to say it
bad? Are we defending some culture or hypocrisy? And what culture we are
talking about. The culture in which Kamasutra is considered an art, a culture
of Khajuraho temples & Ajanta Elora caves, a culture where
Draupadi’s polyandry is considered normal or a culture where Lord Krishna’s
flirts with his gopi’s is called raslilla.
If
we look at the history books, its not the Indian culture we are cribbing about
it’s the culture of Mughals that we are defending now. Indian culture was very
much open, that we can judge from our epic stories and historic constructions.
It’s the Mughals who brought the ‘parda pratha’ in India . And now these so called
culture guardians are advising girls not to wear jeans and skimpy dresses. As
if the sick minded people will check the dress of the girl before raping her.
It’s the mentality of the person which is responsible for his crime not the
dress of the victim.
This
is only one aspect of Indian hypocrisy. There are lot many issues like this,
Drinking, prostitution etc. Alcohol is easily available in Gujarat, the dry
state of India .
Drinking for girls is considered morally wrong in a country which is among the
largest consumers of alcohol in the world. Who don’t know about the GB Road in the
heart of capital of great India
where prostitution is illegal. Every body loves it, but still pre-marital sex
is considered immoral. A boy with so many girlfriends is considered stud and a
girl with two boyfriends is labeled as loose character.
So,
why are we like this? When do we change or are we happy with our two face
society? I am not asking this question to anybody else. We must ask this to
ourselves.
It was good read.....
ReplyDeleteUS Comedian Bill Hicks has given a perfect counter argument to the people who feels porn is bad or uncultured.
The people who oppose porn argues that porn should be banned coz it arose sexual desire. To which Bill Hicks says porn dosent arose sexual desires, infact having 'dick' causes sexual desires. Its funny but so true...
Thanks a lot Friend......
DeleteAnd not only this issue.....there are lot many other issues, where we need to mend our double standards..... I hope we Indians will try to be true to ourselves....